Seems satisfying at
first…even fun….then…the more you play…the less fun it gets...instead of wining
cool prizes and money you win things like built up resentments and bitterness…
Anytime I have played
this game I have lost
It is a hard game not
to get sucked into….sometimes you are playing it and you don’t even realize it…
The blame game can be
addicting…
It can start small
with irritation and frustration toward others…over places and situations…over
things we can’t control
Blaming your
ex-boyfriend or husband for being a
terrible person, ruining your life, making you miserable…
Blaming your mom for
ruining your childhood (mom’s always get the blame)
Blaming your parents
for every wrong adult decision you ever made…Blaming your kids for not listening or doing what they needed to do
Blaming the universe
for the rain and gloom
Blaming your friends
for taking advantage of youBlaming everyone for everything
Then as the game
progresses you suddenly realize that winning isn’t a good thing….
That the only prize
for wining is misery, bitterness and resentment….
Damn right you probably have the right to blame...
Things to be bitter and
resentful about….I am sure you do…we all do…
It isn’t about having
the right to be bitter, resentful and blaming others…
It is about
understanding that the blame game is a losing battle and that the only one hurt
is you…
Stop playing the
blame game…let go…and join me in Monopoly…
Keeping it Real with
Dr. Mary G.
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